ARE WE SHELTERING AND BUBBLE-WRAPPING OUR CHILDREN? Let’s have a chat…

I keep coming across situations that make me wonder if we are empowering or crippling our children on a day to day basis?

What is the worst case scenario you found yourself facing as a child? I believe it wasn’t just academics that was making your world spin sideways.

I keep wondering if our children would survive in a world that is shoving get rich quick schemes when finances are not enough or if they will escape the sensual charged social media content that is packaged in eye-catching scenarios that your child may accidentally find themselves watching.

I am not here to create a fear based model for parenting. I keep sharing within the platforms and seminars I facilitate in, that if your school going child has not asked you a question on what is considered taboo topics,(death, sexuality etc) you should start that conversation today.

I am not saying you get all the information and flood your child with it but create avenues and systems, family rituals that allow the to ask you what they are curious about. This means having non-judgmental family meetings on topical issues or emerging concerns your child has or is facing.

Your child should not just be known for great grades because once that identity is removed for whatever reason in future they get derailed by whatever they reach out for to console their hearts in the midst of an ever-engulfing storm that has us as adults sighing heavily and wanting to scream that ADULTING IS A TRAP.

What about adulting is hard and can you pass on the skills to your children in bite-sized conversations over time?

Parenting is all about preparing your children to live independently from you. I am not saying you kick them out of the nest so fast.

Are you finding it hard to talk to your children face to face? You are not alone since most of us are from a generation where we never had taboo topics discussed to the degree our children want today.

We have other modes of communication that you can use such as writing a letter, recording a video or inviting someone like myself to talk to your child or group of children on issues of concern.

I am propelled by the notion that we should try to be the person we needed when we our children’s age.

Don’t do it alone. Ask questions. Parenting is a conundrum that I am willing to help you navigate through.

As always,

It’s about Patience: Persistence: Progress: Not Perfection.

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OH HAPPY DAY: MY 100TH VIDEO IS UP ON YOU-TUBE

Help Children Learn How To Find Their Way To And From Places

If your child knows where the main centers or routes are, and how to get to where they need to go without the use of navigation gadgets, they will be safe and independent.

If they get lost in a city but can see a major landmark, then they know which way to head. This works in cities and towns around the world, too as many of them have large towers or significant buildings.

Today’s video is all about taking time to teach our children how to find/use directions without depending on gadgets.

As always,

It’s about Patience: Persistence: Progress: Not Perfection.

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HOW TO HAVE A FANTASTIC CHRISTMAS

The Christmas Holidays are here with us…

In todays video I share some of my tips that will help you have a lovely season with loads of memories…

I even talked about some financial tips.

Remember to like, share and definitely don’t forget to subscribe.

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Blog: https://faithmutegi.wordpress.com​

As always,

Patience: Persistence : Progress. Not Perfection

GRIEVING TEENS/HELPING ADOLESCENTS COPE WITH LOSS & GRIEF

NEW VIDEO ALERT

Grieving Teenagers:-

Should they be treated as children or as young adults when it comes to loss and grief?

Grownups seeking to support an adolescent should remember that there’s no one single formula for providing support.

Watch today’s video and gain insight into your teenager’s perspective on death of a loved one.

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HOW DO I BREAK SAD NEWS TO A CHILD? HOW TO TALK TO CHILDREN ABOUT DEATH

Loss and grief are uncomfortable conversations to have no matter what age you are.

We can’t wish it all away because we grieve as much as we love.

We have been quiet for too long and we have tried not to dwell too much on what pains us…or makes us uncomfortable. It’s time to bite the bullet.

This video is part of an ongoing series on how to talk about death to our little ones #parentingconundrums

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ALL ABOUT LOSS AND GRIEF IN CHILDREN

We may be trying to protect or shield our children from upsetting details involving death but this causes more harm than good in the long run. #complicatedgrief

It is important to :-

1. give children information as soon as possible

2. give them accurate information that is appropriate to their age.

3. use simple language

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DO YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT YOUR CHILD? GET SOME FAMILY CONVERSATION STARTERS.

NEW VIDEO ALERT

Conversation starters are a great way to create and maintain closeness between parents and their children.

These are cards or small notes you can keep at the dining table or sitting room to get your family sharing and bonding on topical or fun topics.

The conversation starters can help you as a parent or guardian to discuss heavy topics such as bullying, sexuality or simple aspects about life.

The aim is to create a warm environment the children can share their innermost thoughts with you in a non-judgmental setting.

Listen in and don’t forget to like, subscribe and share within your networks.

There are so many resources online that can fit your family dynamics.#familyconversationstarters

I am a Counselling Psychologist, Child Psychologist, Sunday School Teacher and Paper Craft enthusiast who strives to inspire and empower children, parents and guardians to be the best versions of themselves through the collective mantra of Patience: Persistence: Progress. Not Perfection

I reach out through my child centered platform known as Parenting Conundrums (for parents) and offers personalized child therapy and craft sessions for children of all ages.

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As always, Patience: Persistence : Progress. Not Perfection.

BED-WETTING IN CHILDREN : HOW TO HELP YOUR CHILD WHO WETS THE BED PART 2

Bed-wetting is not your child’s fault. Your child is not wetting their bed on purpose to irritate you.

1. Is there a family history of bed-wetting?

2. Has your child always wet the bed, or did it begin recently?

3. How often does your child wet the bed?

4. How do you respond to your child’s bed-wetting?

5. Should you restrict how much water your child takes during the day?

Listen in and get insight into how to handle bed-wetting in school going children.

I am a Counselling Psychologist, Child Psychologist, Sunday School Teacher and Paper Craft enthusiast who strives to inspire and empower children, parents and guardians to be the best versions of themselves through the collective mantra of Patience: Persistence: Progress. Not Perfection

I reach out through my child centered platform known as Parenting Conundrums (for parents) and offers personalized child therapy and craft sessions for children of all ages.

Parenting Conundrums

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As always, Patience: Persistence : Progress. Not Perfection.

BED-WETTING IN CHILDREN : HOW TO HELP YOUR CHILD WHO WETS THE BED PART 1

Bed-wetting is not your child’s fault.

Your child is not wetting their bed on purpose to irritate you.

Has your child always wet the bed, or did it begin recently?

How often does your child wet the bed?

Today’s video link is https://youtu.be/Qk8Oe5gbci4

Listen in and get insight into how to handle bed-wetting in school going children.

I am a Counselling Psychologist, Child Psychologist, Sunday School Teacher and Paper Craft enthusiast who strives to inspire and empower children, parents and guardians to be the best versions of themselves through the collective mantra of Patience: Persistence: Progress. Not Perfection

I reach out through my child centered platform known as Parenting Conundrums (for parents) and offers personalized child therapy and craft sessions for children of all ages.

Parenting Conundrums

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Facebook: Mutegi Faith:

Parenting Conundrums Blog: https://faithmutegi.wordpress.com​

As always, Patience: Persistence : Progress. Not Perfection.

HOW DO YOU HUG? FRONT VERSUS SIDE HUGS FOR TEEN BOYS

Your pre-teen and teenage sons, nephews and male relatives are growing up.

How you show affection should also be updated accordingly.

I explain why in this video.

Pre-teen and teenage boys still need to be hugged, however I am challenging you to pay attention to

1. How you hug the teenage boys in your life (front or side hug?)

2. How do they hug you in return? Do they keep away?

Then decide on whether you will be giving front or side hugs from now on.

Videos linked in todays video include:-

TODAY A BOY, TOMORROW A MAN, HUSBAND AND FATHER https://youtu.be/r5Ig6q4HoTU

DO YOU WANT TO CONNECT BETTER WITH YOUR CHILD? LEARN THEIR KIDS LOVE LANGUAGE https://youtu.be/PFlNcifC3EU

7 PRACTICAL SAFETY TIPS TO TEACH YOUR CHILD https://youtu.be/gDCWkqAxu9Y

Reach out through:- Facebook: Mutegi Faith: Parenting Conundrums

Blog: https://faithmutegi.wordpress.com​

As always, Patience: Persistence: Progress. Not Perfection